[et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” da_disable_devices=”off|off|off” global_colors_info=”{}” da_is_popup=”off” da_exit_intent=”off” da_has_close=”on” da_alt_close=”off” da_dark_close=”off” da_not_modal=”on” da_is_singular=”off” da_with_loader=”off” da_has_shadow=”on”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” width=”100%” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/static.qustodio.com\/public-site\/uploads\/2024\/04\/09081743\/Hero.png” alt=”A child victim of cyberbullying” title_text=”Hero” force_fullwidth=”on” _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” custom_padding=”||24px||false|false” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=”1″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” custom_margin=”-80px|||||” custom_padding=”0px||0px||true|false” da_disable_devices=”off|off|off” global_colors_info=”{}” da_is_popup=”off” da_exit_intent=”off” da_has_close=”on” da_alt_close=”off” da_dark_close=”off” da_not_modal=”on” da_is_singular=”off” da_with_loader=”off” da_has_shadow=”on”][et_pb_row _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″ _builder_version=”4.16″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n
Just like how shopping, banking, dating, and almost everything else has been transformed by the digital age, so has bullying.<\/span><\/p>\n Of course, the traditional schoolyard menace still exists. But today\u2019s bullies can hide behind their phones and computer screens, and make your child\u2019s life a misery 24\/7.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n And, with children worldwide spending approximately <\/span>4 hours a day on their personal devices<\/span><\/a>, cyberbullying is a serious parenting issue that won\u2019t be going away soon.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n The urge to fight a child\u2019s battles is strong for any parent. But, it\u2019s important for their development that <\/span>they know how to identify and report cyberbullying <\/b>themselves. <\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n The <\/span>Cyberbullying Research Center <\/span><\/a>defines cyberbullying as \u201c<\/span>willful and repeated harm inflicted through the use of computers, cell phones, and other electronic devices.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Cyberbullying can involve sending, sharing, or posting harmful content about others; and spreading private information about someone with malicious intent.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n A cyberbully is <\/span>different from an online troll<\/span><\/a> in that they often target someone they know from school or elsewhere in the real world. Social media and other platforms have allowed cyberbullies to remain anonymous and minimize the risk of being caught.<\/span><\/p>\n Cyberbullying can occur wherever people interact online, on forums, games, messaging apps, and email; <\/span>but it\u2019s social media where cyberbullying is its most notorious.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n A survey of 10,000 teenagers showed that the <\/span>highest percentage of social media cyberbullying occurs on Instagram<\/span><\/a>, followed by Facebook and Snapchat.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n As just <\/span>40% of victims report cyberbullying to their parents, <\/span><\/a>\u00a0it\u2019s important that you\u2019re able to spot the warning signs so that you can give them the support they need.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Indicators that your child is being cyberbullied might include <\/span>not wanting to go to school<\/b>, a <\/span>lack of interest in technology<\/b>, <\/span>changes in sleep and eating habits<\/b>, and <\/span>secretiveness.<\/b> We\u2019ve outlined more tell-tale signs of cyberbullying in this <\/span>in-depth article<\/span><\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=”https:\/\/static.qustodio.com\/public-site\/uploads\/2024\/04\/09082214\/InsideImage.png” alt=”Mom listening to daughter ” title_text=”InsideImage” align=”center” disabled_on=”off|off|off” _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n Finding out that your child is being bullied online is a distressing discovery for any parent. Here are some ways you can help them during this challenging time:<\/span><\/p>\n Stay calm<\/b><\/p>\n Your first instinct might be to cry or smash something in anger, but it\u2019s much more helpful to establish a relaxed environment where your child can open up and feel heard.<\/span><\/p>\n Offer comfort and support<\/b><\/p>\n Heap praise onto your child for doing the right thing by coming to you. Let your child know that they\u2019re not alone in this and you\u2019re always there for them to talk to. It\u2019s also a good idea to share personal experiences.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Don\u2019t take their devices away<\/b><\/p>\n It might be tempting to take an \u201cout of sight, out of mind\u201d approach and ban your child from using their phone or computer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n This is not recommended as your child may feel <\/span>they<\/span><\/i> are being punished and that they\u2019ve done something wrong. Also, children use their devices to keep in touch with their friends and you want to encourage positive connections at this difficult time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Instead of removing devices entirely, consider using a parental control app like <\/span>Qustodio<\/span><\/a> to manage your child\u2019s screen time, monitor usage, and pause the internet at the touch of a button.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Assure them that it’s not their fault<\/b><\/p>\n It\u2019s common for victims of cyberbullying to blame themselves with thoughts like, \u201cThey\u2019re singling me out because there\u2019s something wrong with me.\u201d Assure them that this isn’t true and the blame lies 100% on the bully.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Get the facts<\/b><\/p>\n Without interrogating, try to establish the severity of the cyberbullying and how badly it\u2019s affecting your child. Sometimes a bully\u2019s behavior may not <\/span>seem<\/span><\/i> that bad but it can still have a strong impact on a child\u2019s mental health.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Empower your child<\/b><\/p>\n It\u2019s been said that we as parents shouldn\u2019t try to <\/span>child-proof the world, but rather world-proof the child<\/b>. Our goal should always be to build our children\u2019s confidence so that they can better face the challenges life throws at them.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n With cyberbullying, this might mean showing them how to report incidents, collect evidence, or block bullies themselves.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n However, if your child is being threatened or cyberbullying is causing them to want to harm themselves, then you must seek professional help.<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” width=”96.4%” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n Sometimes cyberbullying goes beyond name calling and trolling, and becomes a <\/span>crime<\/span><\/a>. If there have been incidents of any of the following, then they should be reported to law enforcement.<\/span><\/p>\n <\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” hover_enabled=”0″ global_colors_info=”{}” sticky_enabled=”0″]<\/p>\n Making sure your child knows how to report incidents of cyberbullying is a good way to build their confidence and resilience – both on and offline.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n 1. Advise them not to retaliate or respond<\/b><\/p>\n Sometimes cyberbullies say unkind things to get a rise out of others. By responding to them, your child might be playing into their hands and make the situation worse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Instead, encourage your child to stop replying and make sure they know how to ignore, mute, or block the bully in whichever app they\u2019re using.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n You can also show your child how to change their privacy settings so that certain people cannot see their posts and profile.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n 2. Show them how to collect evidence\u00a0<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n Most social media platforms will require you to submit evidence as part of your report. So, show your child how to save screenshots, messages, posts, pictures, and other materials that show the extent of the abuse. Keeping a record of the dates and times too will help prove how long the bullying has been going on.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n 3. Read the community guidelines together<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n Community guidelines are essentially a set of rules that explain how a user is expected to behave on a platform. They usually clarify what is and isn\u2019t allowed and outline the consequences if any of the rules are broken.<\/span><\/p>\n Going through the guidelines together is an opportunity to discuss appropriate online behavior, and why the cyberbully’s actions go against the platform’s rules and policies.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n All major online platforms have community guidelines, including <\/span>Instagram<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>Facebook<\/span><\/a>, <\/span>Snapchat<\/span><\/a>, and <\/span>(X) Twitter<\/span><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n 4. Go through the reporting process together<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n Thankfully, most platforms where cyberbullying is a possibility make reporting incidents a simple process. But it\u2019s still a good idea to go through the process together, at least for the first time.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Before you begin, make sure you have the screenshots and other evidence ready as you\u2019ll be asked to attach them to show that the cyberbully\u2019s conduct has violated the terms of service.<\/span><\/p>\n To make it easier for you both, here are links to the relevant pages on Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, and Twitter, where you can file the reports.<\/span><\/p>\n 5. Stay aware\u00a0<\/b><\/b><\/p>\n After you\u2019ve reported the cyberbullying, we recommend that you <\/span>check in with your child regularly<\/b>. The impact of cyberbullying might be more subtle and longer-lasting than you expect.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n If necessary, consider seeking support from a counselor or a therapist to help your child work through feelings that might have been stirred up by the harassment.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n [\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=”4.24.0″ _module_preset=”default” global_colors_info=”{}”]<\/p>\n While you can\u2019t completely remove the risk of cyberbullying, you can help prevent your child from becoming a victim by making sure they <\/span>know how to block users and report harassment. <\/b>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Child psychologist Dr. Nicole Buerkens recommends having <\/span>open and meaningful conversations<\/span><\/a> with children about being kind on the internet. As tech-savvy as they may seem, kids require guidance as they encounter more challenging and problematic behavior online.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n Many families choose to use an <\/span>all-in-one parental control app like <\/b>Qustodio<\/b><\/a> to help minimize the risk of cyberbullying and encourage healthy screen time habits.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\nWhat is cyberbullying?<\/strong><\/h2>\n
What are some signs your child is being cyberbullied?<\/b><\/h2>\n
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What should you do if you think your child is being cyberbullied?<\/b><\/h2>\n
When to report cyberbullying to the police<\/b><\/h2>\n
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How to help your child report cyberbullying<\/b><\/h2>\n
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What you can do to help prevent future cyberbullying<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/h2>\n