{"id":46722,"date":"2023-09-26T07:00:38","date_gmt":"2023-09-26T07:00:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.qustodio.com\/?p=46722"},"modified":"2023-09-26T08:04:24","modified_gmt":"2023-09-26T08:04:24","slug":"talking-to-your-child-about-tiktok-challenges","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.qustodio.com\/en\/blog\/talking-to-your-child-about-tiktok-challenges\/","title":{"rendered":"Talking to your child about TikTok challenges"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row custom_padding_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;left&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;0px||0px||false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;2px||4px|2%|false|false&#8221; custom_padding_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; custom_padding_phone=&#8221;0px||0px||true|false&#8221; module_alignment_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; module_alignment_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; module_alignment_last_edited=&#8221;on|desktop&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_team_member name=&#8221;Emily Lawrenson&#8221; position=&#8221;Qustodio writer&#8221; image_url=&#8221;https:\/\/static.qustodio.com\/public-site\/uploads\/2021\/11\/09185059\/Emily.png&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;80%&#8221; width_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; width_phone=&#8221;&#8221; width_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;||24px|7px|false|false&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||true|false&#8221; position_text_align_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; position_text_align_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; position_text_align_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; text_orientation_tablet=&#8221;&#8221; text_orientation_phone=&#8221;center&#8221; text_orientation_last_edited=&#8221;on|phone&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_team_member][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; width=&#8221;100%&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/static.qustodio.com\/public-site\/uploads\/2023\/03\/28143347\/2023-03-Talking-to-your-child-about-TikTok-challenges_Hero-1.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;talking to children about tiktok challenges&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2023-03 Talking to your child about TikTok challenges_Hero&#8221; force_fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;||24px||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; custom_margin=&#8221;-80px|||||&#8221; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px||true|false&#8221; da_disable_devices=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; da_is_popup=&#8221;off&#8221; da_exit_intent=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_close=&#8221;on&#8221; da_alt_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_dark_close=&#8221;off&#8221; da_not_modal=&#8221;on&#8221; da_is_singular=&#8221;off&#8221; da_with_loader=&#8221;off&#8221; da_has_shadow=&#8221;on&#8221;][et_pb_row _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.16&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a kid, the only people who could bear witness to your <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">flawless<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> interpretation of Bye Bye Bye were your long-suffering parents, forced into the living room for yet another Friday night performance. Today, for a teenager with a smartphone, that audience can be anyone, anywhere, at any time. Thanks to the TikTokification of social media, dances, routines, and <\/span><b>viral challenges have swept the internet, with each one becoming more daring than the last<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While some challenges on social media are fun and positive, like learning the latest dance routine, or asking grandma about the true meaning behind select emojis, the sad truth is that <\/span><b>many of the challenges circulating on social media are potentially<\/b> <b>dangerous, harmful, or even deadly<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Here\u2019s how you can talk to your child or teenager about the content and consequences of the challenges they might be seeing on TikTok. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><b>What is a TikTok challenge?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">A challenge on TikTok is a call for people watching the video or trend to get involved and take some form of action. From learning a new dance move to recording how many pushups you can do in 60 seconds, there\u2019s a challenge for everyone.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>TikTok challenges really took off during the 2020 pandemic<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, when people around the world suddenly found themselves at home with no outside stimulation. Turning to the internet and social media for companionship, challenges were a fun way to pass the time while connecting with people across the globe.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><b>How can you keep track of trending challenges?<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What\u2019s popular on social media changes from one day to the next, so it\u2019s difficult for parents and guardians to stay on top of trends unless they\u2019re very much in the loop. Some simple ways to keep up with the fast pace of online content include:\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Use the same platforms your children do, so you understand how they work<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. While the TikTok algorithm is based on your personal views and interests, you can still check trending tags, videos, and users.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Talk to your tween or teen about their interests, and the kinds of videos they watch<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Offer them a safe space where they can share what they like and dislike without feeling judged by you. This way, they\u2019ll be more likely to come to you if they see something that makes them feel uncomfortable or which they feel might be dangerous.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Make use of <\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/www.qustodio.com\/en\/blog\/how-to-set-parental-controls-on-tiktok\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><b>TikTok\u2019s native parental controls<\/b><\/a><b>:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Family Pairing. These allow families to set screen time limits, restrict searches and inappropriate content, block TikTok LIVE, and hide their profile from discovery.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_image src=&#8221;https:\/\/static.qustodio.com\/public-site\/uploads\/2023\/03\/28143418\/2023-03-Talking-to-your-child-about-TikTok-challenges_Inside_Page-1.jpg&#8221; alt=&#8221;how to talk to your child about challenges on tiktok&#8221; title_text=&#8221;2023-03 Talking to your child about TikTok challenges_Inside_Page&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; disabled_on=&#8221;off|off|off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><b>Why are TikTok challenges dangerous?\u00a0<\/b><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not all social media challenges are dangerous. Some are pretty innocent, and TikTok users have the chance to feel part of a community through them, trying out different accents, imitating Dolly Parton, or cooking up a storm in the kitchen. Sadly, <\/span><b>many TikTok challenges encourage others to join in with or imitate foolish, and often risky behavior<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dangerous or questionable challenges over the years have included:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Slapping a teacher at school<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cooking chicken in NyQuil<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Swallowing laundry detergent tabs (Tide pods)\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eating a spoonful of ground cinnamon\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Excessively consuming over-the-counter medication, like Benadryl (an antihistamine)<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Setting objects, or body parts, on fire<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Flicking pennies into electrical outlets<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u2026and the list, unfortunately, goes on. While teenagers and young people have always been up for goading one another into risky behavior, social media lets dares and challenges run riot, reaching new audiences outside kids\u2019 friendship groups and even across the globe.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><b>What is the most dangerous TikTok challenge? <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">One of the most notorious challenges, \u201cThe Blackout Challenge\u201d, was a social media take on a popular playground dare. Participants in the challenge are encouraged to hold their breath until they pass out. The Blackout Challenge has so far <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bloomberg.com\/news\/features\/2022-11-30\/is-tiktok-responsible-if-kids-die-doing-dangerous-viral-challenges\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">resulted in over 15 deaths<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, all children under 12. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h2><b>Why do children want to do these challenges? <\/b><\/h2>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Online peer pressure can be difficult for young people to avoid these days, and this can certainly play a part in why children feel the urge to take part in risky challenges. <\/span><b>Challenges allow young people to feel connected, feel part of something, and try out new, fun things<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> &#8211; until they become deadly.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cKids don\u2019t yet have a fully formed pre-frontal cortex in their brain,\u201d child psychologist Dr. Nicole Beurkens states, speaking to Qustodio on the effects of <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.qustodio.com\/en\/blog\/curbing-the-effects-of-digital-peer-pressure\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">digital peer pressure<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. How does this affect their decision-making process as they choose whether to be involved in the latest TikTok trend? \u201cThis doesn\u2019t allow them to think through and weigh the consequences of their actions, especially in the context of pressure from peers<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">,\u201d<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> she continues.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Challenges can also start as a way for kids and teens to draw attention to themselves<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Social media is the world\u2019s largest playground, and it\u2019s not easy to get yourself seen or heard when up against so many out there. 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Help them understand what peer pressure means<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone feels the need to follow or blend in with the crowd sometimes, or do the same as others. This is a completely normal feeling, but it\u2019s not something we always have to act on, or should, especially when risky behavior is involved. Try asking your child if they\u2019ve ever felt tempted to do something they\u2019ve seen online. Why did they feel this way? What motivated them to want to join in?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><b>2. Give them examples of challenges that have gone wrong<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">While it\u2019s not a particularly pleasant subject to breach, talking to children about the consequences of certain TikTok challenges can help open their eyes to the dangers that are out there. <\/span><\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><b>3. Encourage them to pause before they post\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Whether it\u2019s a comment, a photo, or a video, encourage children to take a moment and think about what they\u2019re saying or uploading, and think through some of these ideas:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is what I am saying or doing hurting anyone?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why do I feel the need to upload or post this?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Could this have any negative consequences?\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Is this something I\u2019ll regret in the future? <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>While these can be difficult questions to ask, especially when the impulse of social media strikes, they can help teens to take a moment and reflect &#8211; which sometimes is all it takes.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>[\/et_pb_text][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.19.4&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p><b>4. 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